Now that she is back to her birthplace all she talks about is moving back to her apartment in New York. The family has asked all of us to stop writing and responding to her mail and social media, hoping it will ease the transition to forgetting New York and adjusting to Indonesia. Any opinions on this? She has a neighbor who says it's against her religion to abandon someone. Since we can't drive over and see her next door, what do you all think about stopping the letters. Her sister and family are doing a great job helping her eat and with activities. New York she would be living alone with a social worker 24-7 until she runs out of money or finds housing.