My sister does not talk to me at all. She has made false police reports, trying to have me arrested, even having her ex husband that lives in Fla call 911, saying I was going to murder her, and he cant get in touch with her, and he is very concerned. She went to moms doctor. This is on my mom's MyChart that I had been missing for 9 years, and popped into the family's life wanting mom to change the will, and I wanted a POA. I have never wanted a POA, and a will didn't exist then. I have never been missing. Greenville County turned all the 911 calls and reports, which there are more to me. She has my mom believing I lie about everything. I tried talking to my mom about what she has done, even have documation to back it up, and my mom says that never happened. My sister has put her name on everything. My mom owns the house she has survivor benefits. My Dad passed away in 2014 with a will. My Dad was so close, but my sister made sure I was hurt then. Dad was a fair, honest man; he would not believe what was going on. I had a brother who passed away suddenly in 2018 age 61 heart attack, and when that happened, my sister took out a line of credit on my mom's house, completely redid it, and my mom is paying the loan back also all taxes and insurance out of social security. My Dad served in WW11 but he never drew a penny of benefits. He told me he wouldnt he was hard of hearing and was a gunner's mate in the Navy. But when he passed, my sister got VA benefits for my mom. My mom once told me she doesn't know how much she has or where the money is. The fiduciary department is no help neithers is APS. I have a bank statement showing where my sister and her daughter use moms debit card for themselves. I am waiting on knee replacement surgery, and at this time, my mobility is limited, but I need help with this. I cant afford an attoney what are my opions
Please elaborate on what you're trying to do.
If your sister is up to no good with your moms money she will have to stand before her Maker one day and answer for that. And she may have to answer even before then if there is some type of fraud going on, as what goes around comes around.
If it makes you feel better I would just send your mom cards every now and again reminding her that you love her and just let the rest of this nonsense go. It's just not worth the stress that's it's adding to your life. And all things cannot be fixed especially when there's dysfunction at the root of it.
Move on girlfriend!
Before my dad passed I had a family
I don't think you are going to be able to get any legal action against your sister, but I'm not sure that would be helpful if she is the one taking care of your mom and you aren't prepared to take over EVERYTHING.
When your mom passes away, the remaining assets should be divided according to the will or inheritance laws in your state. I would be prepared to find out that she left everything to your sister.
My mom is 96 lives alone and still drives she is not your normal 96 yr old
My dad passed at 94 and looked 70 and was very active he had a stroke