My Dad buys her the wine. She won't go to the Doctor. Help. I live out of state as well as my brother. I am visiting right now and have asked her if she wants to die and she just doesn't say much. I have told her I love her and I hate seeing her like this. Just don't know what I can do. I have asked my Dad to stop buying the wine and I think he gets so much of the brunt end that he doesn't want to hear what she has to say when she is not on the wine. She is about 90 lbs and eats absolutely nothing, only wine. Don't know how much longer she can live like this?