Mom has lived with my husband and me for 1 1/2 years. She is independent walking with a walker and takes herself to the bathroom and dresses herself. She wears disposable underwear and wets in them every night. I hate it that I can't convince her to shower and put on clean clothes once a week, but she becomes very irate when I bring it up. Her hair needs washing so bad, but she won't let me try to help her with her personal hygiene.