I cannot even get one of his old t-shirts to sleep in, while she gives away sentimental items to HER kids, she did not even offer to fly me home for his burial. She had been sucking him dry financially ever since she gained control of the finances due to his C.O.P.D. not to mention the fact that she broke up our family after doing the same thing to his best yes BEST FRIEND. I know that he can't be brought back, but she needs to be held accountable. I am truly outside of myself and fear for my freedom. My father was very clear with me that he wanted me to have his watch, his wedding band, and a few other small items of a collectible nature and he made a big deal about a time share. She must have been giving him problems over which one would go to me because he called me up to ask me if I would mind the South African time share because his wife wanted the Hawaiian one. I do not even care if she sees this because she knows what she did. She did not want me to be a part of his life and he would not allow her to do that. She was, however able to keep me out of being a part of his death. How do I get a copy of his will, of which he certainly had, but she is making it impossible for me to contest? She cut me off and out before he was even in the ground. Help with advice please.