My 67 year old Dad is disabled with MS and is bedbound. I'll be honest and say that we (me and my mom) are not getting along with Dad, so Dad is all for moving into a 1 bed by himself and having a caretaker care for him for, I'm assuming 12-24 hours a day. Dad would be asleep at night, so maybe not 24 hour care. I am asking for advice and tips on the RIGHT and LEGAL way to go along with his wishes. Advice on the first things I should do, or we should do, to go about it. Advice on some resources that could help us find a place for him, places specially for my Dad's situation.
Real quick, I have suggested for Dad to live in some sort of care facility, but each time I bring up the subject he just shakes his head, so it is rather clear to me he wants to just live in a 1 bed and have a care-taker tend to his needs.
Again, any advice on how to get the ball rolling? What are some of the first things I should DO and CONSIDER while looking for a place for my Dad.