That means I am getting her ready for bed and into bed at 11:30! She is up at 8 am and I take care of her off and on all day as needed. She is 88 yrs old, in a Wheelchair and needs help toileting, dressing, meal prep, medications, laundry etc. I do have help to bathe her 3 times a week. I feel she should go to bed at 9pm and let me complete my busy work day and have some alone time after that. She gets very annoyed when I suggest this. Most other elderly people I know either go to bed much earlier or don't get up that early. She does nap during the day in her lounge chair but no set shedule. Sometimes I nap because I get exhausted. Im 64. Any suggestions?