Follow
Share

This has been happening more frequently, she says her legs just feel like jelly before they give out. She has recently had a full blood work up and her test results come back great, and show nothing.


Does anyone have any similar situations or know what could be causing this? Each fall has gotten progressively worse and I’m afraid the next one will be catastrophic.

Find Care & Housing
Frailty can creep up silently, with my mom it was simply a combination of age, lack of regular exercise and a gradual loss of appetite leading to weight loss. If this sounds like it fits get her a walker or a rollator, and it may help her to to get some PT - elder gym is a great resource
https://eldergym.com/elderly-balance/
If she lives alone a fall detection pendant or watch might be a good idea too.
Helpful Answer (7)
Reply to cwillie
Report

You are correct.
Falls are often the beginning of the end and this was the case for my own Mom.

There is a reason here and now you must follow up to find out why.
Your doctor is the one to follow up with--rather HER doctor.
I am glad that the test run so far indicate she is in good condition. But she may need a switch to a good Gerontology specialist if this doctor is poo-pooing this.

I am 82. I guarantee you that our balance goes. And this is sadly the norm. We become feathers in the wind no matter what we weigh. Our lower brain deterioration in the balance centers prevent out orientation spatially. And we cannot recover balance. You mom needs a neurologist exam and she may need PT and balance exercises (which I guarantee you do work but should be monitored by PT because are dangerous to someone already impaired.)

This could be ANYTHING. This could be the beginnings of neuro problems such a Lewy's or Parkinson's that are notorious for balance. This could be postural changes in blood pressure on arrising (symptoms sound like orthostatic hypotension; look it up). That latter you can test out on your own with a good Omron arm cuff measuring device for BP--about 45.00 on Amazon).

But basically this needs medical followup, because this old RN can tell you that you are spot on; falls can be devastating.
Helpful Answer (5)
Reply to AlvaDeer
Report

A walker or rollator might be a good idea, but if she isn't trained to use it correctly, it could be the source of more falls. If she could work with a PT, OT or both, and if she is able to learn to use either or both of those aids or even a cane, she might be able to avoid falling so much.

Also look into Silver Sneakers programs near her. She may be able to build strength that way. I once had wonderful yoga teacher who was 82 and was still doing difficult poses like the Crow. She impressed upon us the importance of maintaining a strong upper body. Her reasoning was that when we start falling, as so many elders eventually do, we need upper body strength so that we can use our arm, chest and back muscles to get us to the door or the phone or computer, where we can let someone know we've "fallen and can't get up."

If you don't do yoga, keep hand weights where you watch TV and do a bit of weight lifting every day when you watch your fave shows. It does make a difference!
Helpful Answer (5)
Reply to Fawnby
Report

I agree with cwillie that pursuing PT for strength and balance would be beneficial, if she is able to get herself there and she cooperates with the exercises at home. Otherwise, many other things can cause balance issues. People with dementia can develop a shuffling gait, so don't pick up their feet as they walk; it can be an inner ear problem like vertigo or Meniere's disease; blood pressure issue; dehydration (which is pretty common in the elderly); a nutritional issue; etc. Make sure her house is "seniorized" so that there is a minimum of rugs to trip over and grab bars are in place in her shower, with a shower seat, along with improved bright lighting.
Helpful Answer (4)
Reply to Geaton777
Report

Is your Mom on any medication? Even if it's medication that she's taken for years, as we age, our chemical tolerance changes. There are many drugs on the market that specifically state, 'not recommended for older adults.' another thing to consider is inner ear infections. UTI's can also wreak havoc.
Helpful Answer (4)
Reply to Gero101
Report

I am 71 years old and I fall all the time. I don't walk around anywhere without my walker. I never know what causes me to fall, I just end up on the floor.
Mine is due to neuropathy and I have bad feet. I have had several surgeries on them for bunions and hammer toes. I am also weak because I don't get enough exercise. The only thing I can tell you is have her doctor order physical therapy. It's alot better if you can go to the office and get your treatment. The machines and equipment make a big difference than doing them at home with nothing to work with but a chair or a wall or cabinet to hold onto.
I have also had two knee replacements, and with all my falls make it hard for me to walk because of the pain and arthritis in them.
I do take Gabapentin for my neuropathy and tramadol for the pain, but I'm not convinced they don't contribute to the falls.
That's about all I have to contribute to your issues with your Mother. I too worry every time I fall it will be the last. I'll pray for you and your Mother.
Sincerely,
Marsha
Helpful Answer (4)
Reply to Magpiemars752
Report
CH4JTcg Apr 16, 2025
Gabapentin did strange things to my mom. Be sure your Dr knows about your falls,,, and all issues.... and remind him you're on Gabapentin. Once me mom was put on something else her problem stopped.
(0)
Report
See 1 more reply
One thing you could do is to have the house checked for safety (in my case the local council does it for free). You may need grab rails EVERYWHERE, not just in the bathroom, or you may need to re-arrange furniture so that she is never more than one step away from something to touch and hold. In my case a bookcase to touch while I stop and regain my balance, avoids the need for a lot of grab rails. She says her ‘legs feel like jelly’, but often with balance problems you just fall without realising it’s going to happen. You don’t really ‘feel’ anything much.

How does she walk? It helps to keep the feet several inches apart, so you can lurch sideways onto the other foot. It looks like a waddle, but who cares? Another habit is to practice squatting quickly, rather than falling full-length. It may be easier to practice taking a stride position, moving one foot as wide as you can to the side, as soon as you feel odd. Feet wide helps the body to balance.

Stairs with no hand rails are VERY bad news.

Think about WHERE she falls. I was taught that it’s surprisingly common to fall when turning a corner, if your foot goes to the corner and then you swivel. This really surprised me, until I did it slowly and found that you go through a point where your legs are effectively crossed and your body weight is not well supported. You need to put one foot out diagonally from the corner point. You have to do this to understand! And you need to be touching something on the corner point of the wall.

I have had a very unusual balance problem for just over a year now, not solved by GP, physician, neurologist or physio. I’m also 77 and have had to cope myself (including coping with my other problems). I haven’t fallen badly, but have come close to it, and I have changed a lot of my walking habits (and usually go out hanging onto dear DH’s elbow).

This takes a lot of thought, not just drugs. Good luck!
Helpful Answer (4)
Reply to MargaretMcKen
Report

All good suggestions and I agree, get mom to her doctor for a complete exam. My mom fell several times last year. Through exams and labs it was determined she needed a pacemaker and had low thyroid. She got the pacemaker and is on thyroid medication and since then, no falls.
Helpful Answer (3)
Reply to DD1963
Report

She needs intentional exercise to maintain muscle strength in both upper and lower body. Falls happen as muscles weaken.
Helpful Answer (3)
Reply to RedVanAnnie
Report

There are a lot of possible causes for falls. Has she had her bone density tested? If she has brittle bones or osteoporosis this could be a cause. What about neuropathy? She could have balance issues with her middle ear as well. A lot of older adults get ear troubles and most don't realize a lot of our balance is inner ear controlled. A walker may be a good idea and non slip socks and slippers. She can have rails installed in the bathroom for the toilet and maybe use a shower chair to avoid slips.
Helpful Answer (3)
Reply to DoggieMom86
Report

See All Answers
Ask a Question
Subscribe to
Our Newsletter