My mum (96) makes growling noises has anyone else come across this? It is horrible.

Many patients with Alz/dementia make different noises..... they are not aware they are doing it..... I feel sometimes it is a way for them to relax...... just like some people hum to themselves when they are doing things around the house.... and it is also sometimes the only way they can communicate.... as was suggested... just listen to the sound and see if it sounds different at different times... like if she is agitated or if she is simply in her own world.

My last client would make these horrible sounds when I was changing him.... as he could not always communicate.... I would ask him if I was hurting him... he always said no.... but he continued to do it.... who knows.... I know if I was in some of our elders shoes, I would do more than grunting and groaning.... what a horrible thing for any human to have to exist in.....

You are right, it is soothing to THEM, not to us..... sometimes it is anxiety, but usually it is just the way it is going to be until something knocks that needle off that record and she ends up doing something else to send you up the wall.... that's like people that are hard of hearing.... and between the loud blasting TV and screaming to be heard.... I am a wreck.... so I sure understand what you are saying.... almost makes us want to give our anxiety meds to THEM and see what happens....... I feel for ya..... other than ear plugs, or just being able to get a break 25 times a day, its going to get on your last nerve.... sending you hugs... I really do understand...

Feris...you might be able to relax but, it is rude of you to assume that we all can. I am not your child. We are simply seeking help here not a lecture.

Oh relax! She is just deep breathing. My husband has started doing the same thing. It is not horrible, it is just a sound. And yes, she probably has some dementia at her age.

I have to say this post came ironically the first thing I saw in the morning after I was having a real bad day with my patience at the noise factor. I kept trying to get her to stop which is only momentary the reality is it is a futile effort and I should not even bother, and focus on a productive distraction/solution...as I said I know she cannot help it but doesn't make it less of an annoyance....something about the pitch or tone and repetitive pattern?? Anyway a perfect time to come across this. Thank you!

My momma growls and huffs n puffs, she does have dementia and doesn't talk much. I believe it is her way of vocalizing. It is constant but when I walk in the room there is a direct reaction, acknowledgement growl. I'm not sure why but I beleive it is not unusual for them to make noises like that.
What is your fear? Does she have other issues with memory and self care requiring this move?

yes It is like a purring/soothing to her I am sure, and different intonations as mentioned, it is louder and more abrupt when she is uncomfortable etc...

It is not purring or soothing to me! My mom in law makes noises all day and all night long ...whenever she is awake. At times it becomes really loud. Right now for instance she is making noises like a motorcycle starting. At night these noises become incredibly loud. I know that this is a normal thing. I don't have to like it. But, it sure is not soothing to us. She is making animal growls, she chews with her mouth open, she shows her emotions by making sounds instead of talking. She talks. She has lost some of her vocabulary. But, this is driving me crazy. I am on anti anxiety meds to deal with it. They help. I can sit here with her during the day. But, at night when she gets really loud thankfully my husband is home. So, after I make dinner and we eat I go to the other room to get away. That is all we can do. I want her to be safe and comfortable. But, I need to be sane too. I asked her if she knew she was making sounds....she doesn't. So, there really is not a thing we can do?

Wow this is so interesting! My 91 year old Mom makes noises and when I ask her if she's ok she looks at me like I am nuts! My husband also hears her, but maybe not as loud as your loved one. You could ask her Dr. If you are worried, but I found the others answers very spot on. I wish you all the best!

My father-in-law does the same thing. In his case, it can be working up the energy to move in a certain way, a distress call, annoyance, or fear. We have to really pay attention to the tone, his facial expression, and the context to determine which--they all sound very similar. The rest of us find it distressing even when he does not. There is nothing pretty about this nasty disease. I wish you luck and patience dealing with this part of your mom's illness. Hugs to you Morissa!