Mom has mixed Alzheimer’s and had to be placed right away. I researched five wonderful places but there was no room available.
I put her into one that had space. After two days, complaining started. Man went into her bathroom and urinated in the corner, scared mom so badly she started barricading her door. Then she escaped by opening all the doors until she found one that let her out. Many other complaints that were never addressed, so after less than one month I gave a week notice to move her out.
Now she was moved to a beautiful and well established place with lots of staff and activities to stimulate her. But she wants to go back to the horrible one! Even called 911 and said I kidnapped her and moved her without her permission. She was the one who called me telling me off and saying horrible things because I put her in the first place.
I'm so tired of this abuse I dont want to talk to her anymore.
Now the first place is demanding rent for February!
They have broken so many codes! I filed a complaint with the DDS and Ombudsman.
Any one with this experience?