We agreed to move in with her because our home is small and she was not eating and is scared to stay alone and afraid of the dark. She was getting very depressed. Sometimes I feel she puts on an act to keep my husband there. I have since moved out and back to my home because she is so critical of me and everything I do. I stayed for a year and couldn't take it anymore. But my husband promised his dad he would take care of her and not put her in assisted living. We are the only ones that can take care of her. So we thought we could do this as a temporary situation for the better of the good. However, I feel like I ran out on my husband and left him with a huge burden. She will not allow me to move in personal items that would help me make that more my home, she is very critical of the way I cook and clean. She can't walk through the room without making some harsh comment towards me. She is very happy with the new living arrangements. Any suggestions? I would love to help my husband and live with him.