My mother is sneaky and refuses to listen to anything me or my siblings say. She calls us crooks and tells everyone she comes in contact with how terrible her children are. The housekeeper stops in anytime she needs money and “pulls weeds” so she can get some cash. Mother is constantly writing her checks and handing her cash. Mothers bank accounts are dwindling. Bank and rehab personnel have warned us about red flags with housekeeper but we can’t make mother see it. We have involved DCFS but since mother loves the housekeeper and mother is not confused, there’s not much they can do. How do we protect her when she won’t let us?