She is otherwise healthy and lives in an independent living facility which I pay for. Her sight is rapidly deteriorating and I am concerned about how she will be able to take care of herself in the future. I cannot always be there for her and cannot afford extensive caregiver services. Due to other family complications, it is not possible for her to live with me. She might be eligible for Medicaid help in a nursing home. However, I know she would fight that. If there are others who have had a similar situation, I would appreciate your comments.