She had gotten sick three years ago at that time I had to do everything. She has been fine ever since but won't do the simplest things,example...I cant buckle my seatbelt,do it for me. She does 2 things eat constantly and vegetate in front of the TV. Meanwhile I am a 24 hr caretaker for my (really) disabled husband,her son. she will not do anything to help him either. She has gained over 100lbs in the last year but swears shes losing weight. She has no other family than my husband so she lives with us.I am doing absolutely everything and then some and she is mean and miserable to both of us, she is sucking the lifeblood out of me. She will not go to any social event and is here 24/7 and never ever pleasant, I have no way of getting out of this for even an hour at my wits end, my blood pressure is sky rocketing from stress. I've been told I have to take care of myself, I want to be here for my husband and he needs 24hr assistance. Anything said to her is taken as an attack, she is completely unreasonable. What do I do with Miss Piggy, I cant throw her out?