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Trying to figure out the correct way of dealing with her money and the bills that were left for us to pay. Do we have to pay her remaining bills?

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In general..with a few individual exceptions/caveats...don't spend it until you hear from SSA that you can...YMMV.

If the money is already in the bank before one dies, it gets kept.
If the money isn't already in the bank when one dies, when the money arrives, SSA wants it back.

It is called clawing back when the US Government gives money and then takes it back. OP, it doesn't matter what month it IS FOR just what month it ARRIVES.
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MJ1929 Jul 21, 2023
SS yanked the money back even after it was in the account, and the bank actually locked the account when they heard my dad had died until the SS had dealt with their funds.

It was only a couple of days until they pulled back the funds, but I was pretty angry since my mother and I were still on that account and had every right to access the rest of the funds in there.
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Call the SSA, they are happy to explain how they deal with this situation.

My moms credit union sent her SS check back when it was her estates to keep, because SS is ALWAYS paid a month in the arrears. Then SSA wants a form that takes more time to fill out then it's worth. I figure if they are that dirty and desperate they can keep the check.

You are NOT liable for her bills, however, her estate is. So any monies without beneficiaries would be used to pay her outstanding bills.

I am so sorry for your loss. May The Lord give you wisdom, strength and comfort during this difficult time.
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MyNameIsTrouble Jul 21, 2023
Real, in our most recent death, while SSA had already released the claim in writing, it was the bank that held up the funds in case SSA wanted to do a claw back. It took several back and forth ping pong visits between SSA and the bank because of that dreaded form -- which wasn't necessary and wouldn't get the funds released. Did you investigate if it was SSA that made the request or just the credit union assuming the payment needed sent back -- as many financial institutions do?
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Tom Margenau does an excellent Social Security advice column. CNBC also has excellent advice from questions asked about Social Security. And searching for "why does social security take money when someone dies" will give various ways answering this question with much greater detail.
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You will most likely not receive the payment on 7/26. SS cannot pay someone who is not living. However, her estate representative can file a form with SSA and claim the payment. Her estate is entitled to the July payment as it's for June.

Her estate will be liable for payment of any bills.
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One has to die on the first of a month for that payment from SS to go through. Literally a person can die at 11:59 on the 30th or 31st of a month depending on the particular month and SS will take back the payment.
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(((((((((((HUGS)))))))))
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I think you are safe. The check is for June and Mom died in July so her estate is entitled to it. But do not count ur chickens before they hatch. Since Mom receives her check this late in the month, SS may not deposit it. But that does not mean Mom is not entitled to it. If you don't receive it, call SS.

You are not responsible for Moms bills. Her estate is. If there is a will, then the Executor is now in charge and that person cannot file the Will with Probate until about 10 days after death.
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It’s strange that JUNE payment won’t be deposited until JULY 26. Most elderly people I know receive their SS money at the beginning of the following month or sometimes a few days earlier which means they receive in the same month but at the end of the month.

Are you sure that the money on July 26 is for June and not July??
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Isthisrealyreal Jul 22, 2023
Plar, I asked all these questions to SSA when I was helping my mom get my dads benefits.

Tge check is ALWAYS paid in the arrears, whatever month it is actually posted to the account is the month after it is due. Dates are determined by birth year and it varies for everyone. My mom was getting hers on the 12th, when it changed to my dads it went to the 26th, actually the 4th Wednesday of every month.

This is how our government keeps everything a chitshow and can bellow no responsibility, because even the workers cannot figure out the BS.

I was shocked at the things SSA is willing to share and it is ALL just the process. Ugh!
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Learned this from being a representative payee for my BIL, social security is a month behind so yes you can pay her bills. How I learned this was I got turned into social security for misuse of funds (which was unfounded) I got his social in Feb and didn't touch it but I asked social security they said that was January's payment so I could use it for the nursing home where he was.

Hope this helps.
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Babs2013 Jul 30, 2023
Some doesn't get paid on the 3rd of each month my husband gets his social security on the 2nd wednesday of each month
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I'm so so sorry for your loss. The SS office will most likely not send the full payment for the month, or they will pull it back. I hope your mom had life insurance to help pay her bills. Some accounts may require next of kin to be responsible and some will be removed (based on conditions she agreed to). It's a difficult thing to face the loss of your mom and deal with financial responsibility, employers not allowing time to grieve, processes that need attention, and needing time to cope. Give yourself time to cry and grieve. Hopefully you can get things handled without too much on your shoulders. The LORD Jesus has been my comfort with the loss of my mom in 2021, and I know she's with the LORD.
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my2cents Jul 30, 2023
SS does not prorate based on date you die. It's probably too late in the month to stop the deposit for mid/end of July and could still be completely clawed back.
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Sorry for your loss.

You need to call the Social Security office immediately to report your mother’s death and they will give you the answer to this question that you have asked on this forum. Do not spend this money until you speak to them.
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Call SS to confirm. No surprises that way.
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I did find this on SSA website: The SSA cannot pay benefits for the month of a recipient's death. That means if the person died in July, the check or direct deposit received in August (which is payment for July) must be returned. Find out how to return a check to the SSA.Apr 6, 2023

By that info, it looks like the June benefit, paid to her in July, is hers to keep. The July benefit that would come in August would be returned. Refer to that info when you talk to SSA
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KaleyBug Jul 30, 2023
My mom passed away on Aug 5th her check that normally would of come that month, was not sent, if it had been we would if had to return it.
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Be prepared, if her SS is direct deposit, I suggest leaving it alone because SS, may take it back. Some people get stuck with overdraft fees by using the money, and then SS, sends notification to bank to return the payment due to DOD. OR, depending on DOD , SS will automatically be notified of her death in some cases and, SS stops all payments automatically.
You can also try calling SS to ask.
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Grandma1954 July 30, 2023 4:47pm
That last payment will be taken back. And pretty quickly
YOU do not have to pay her bills from your assets, but whoever is closing the estate will pay the bills from moms estate. If there are no funds then be prepared to be sending copies of death certificates
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Would it make sense to establish a separate account in advance for SS deposits only? That would protect any other joint funds from being locked by the bank since they are not mingled with other (non-SS) funds. You would still have access to the SS funds and use them as normal - you would just have to be careful not over-draw when they are possibly in question.
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You might be able to keep some but not much. My Dad died on the 28th of September 2021. They reversed his payment
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The government is very strange when it comes to the public. When you apply for SS at 62, 65, or 66, they start paying you the following month. When you die they do not pay you for that month, even if it’s the last day of the month.
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RedJeans: Contact SSA. You are not responsible for your mom's bills, but her estate is.
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A bit of a tangent, but Social Security in the US is always paid on a Wednesday. Which Wednesday depends on the day of the month one was born:

Day of Birth: Assigned Payment Day

1st – 10th: Second Wednesday of the month

11th – 20th: Third Wednesday of the month

21st – 31st: Fourth Wednesday of the month
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