I don't know why one of my mom's friends Donnie (more like family and was a nurse for 35 yrs) keeps calling me on her cell from my mom's MC room (with mom right there), stating that she is visiting my mom and that my mom told her she wants to leave. I've told Donnie multiple times that she says the same thing to me everytime I see her. I mean of course, she doesn't want to stay there, would we? So, I asked her last week to not call me from the MC facility or in mom's presence to talk about her. She just called again with the speaker phone on from mom's room...UGGGH!!
I'm sure its not intentional and this concerns her (my mom saying she wants to leave), it bothers me too even though I know her mind will soon move on to something else (which does help me cope in a way with her wanting to leave), and I did tell her that. I knew I shouldn't of answered the phone call when I saw her name, but I did and regret it. As soon as her 1st sentence came out, I was in tears.... I'm her healthcare advocate not her POA (that's my bros area). What does she think I can do about this and how does she think its helpful to anyone speaking in front of my mom about my mom? It's hard enough for me to hear my mom say these things multiple times a visit to me but, I am finding it even more difficult to deal with others calling me and reporting it to me. I was getting ready to leave and visit her shortly and now I'm a crying mess and don't know if I can do it. Thanks in advance for any insight or comments.