She will not wear gown, it has to be pajamas. I cannot stay up. I have sitter 3 nights week. Can't afford more and no family. I have been getting up thru night to change her, but if asleep doesn't want to be bothered. I find handkerchief in her Bsc or on floor with pee. Have to put on pull-ups since she is up and down. Should I ask dr for something to put her to sleep at night? I am soooo tired.