I just found out yesterday. To further complicate she developed dementia and will not speak. Hasn't said a word in 2 days. I have in home hospice care since yesterday. The nurse said just let her rest. I am certain my Mom doesn't want to be with us in this life anymore. I know her extremely well. My sister should have been here 2 days ago. Her train was cancelled due to weather. She wants artificial feeding tube. I actually want what I believe Mom wants. I love her more than life.