Literally out of the blue on Friday Feb. 7th two police showed up and told me I had 5 minutes to get what I need and leave and not return. She had filed a restraining order against me accusing me of literally every cruel thing you can imagine, and it's not true. My son whom is 23 started staying there with me 3 days prior to her visit to get this "bogusly" wordered court order. I feel like a criminal and did nothing. She refuses to let my son bring me anything so I am literally moneyless, homeless, and staying in my car. While she is continuing her substance abuse. This order is slanderous and the court date is not until Feb. 24th, This is awful and so hurtful? I am hurt, confused, and devastated she would do this to me when she asked me to come and stay with her and everything, I thought, was going better than ever, in our entire relationship. This is horrible and I am frightened every night sleeping in my car and there seems to be no help for me. I called clacakamas womens services 2 days prior to being served this order and they listened but now its a long weekend and I am alone, weaponless, and labled and elder abuser at the moment. Help? What do I do?? Legal Aid was horrible and said and Elder could not cause domestic violence, and goodbye? A lawyer is out of the question and I dont have access to my medication, my animals, nothing. Wow, My son is so upset and I am worried for him. He is a recovering opiate addict. And she is an enabler to the max with him. Advise please!!