Mom has Alzheimer's and currently lives in a Memory Care. She is running out of money. I have taken out loans, maxed out my credit cards, borrowed against my life insurance and now there is no where else to turn. She will not have enough money to live in this memory care much longer. They have apartments attached, and there is an opening for a 2 bedroom. Mom would be able to afford the rent they charge for those. I would have to move in with her and be her caregiver. I just don't know if I am up to it, but what choice do I have? I am an only child. I am a retired CNA, so details of care are known to me, but Mom wears out caregivers. She has already been kicked out of 2 facilities because they won't deal with her behaviors, which are from personality disorders such as narcissistic. She hits and is resistant every minute. I'm trying to decide if I should do this or borrow some more money. It's taking a financial toll and my husband doesn't want to ruin our credit.