My mother is 93, has COPD and on OX 24 hrs a day, legally blind, heart failure plus many other issues. She insists she is fine after breaking a hip. She wants to live alone in a 6 rm house with three floors. All she does is fight me. She is very passive aggressive and tells me she doesn’t need me. Her doctor has told her if she were to go home she would need constant care. All she hears is “if you go home.” She says they all overreact and she’ll be fine. She is driving me crazy. She is very stubborn and will listen to one one. My brother has been a great help but he now just leaves. She doesn’t approach him anymore about it. I am beside myself with worry. She is getting very forgetful and mean and combative. I’m sure it’s frustration. Why can’t she accept life as it is now?