Dad has an aneurysm in stomach size of softball. Have called in Hospice for dad, he also has dementia. Mom wants to do whatever dad wants but he is not himself anymore. She doesn't want to make decisions about his life. He is at home with mom and I feel guilty for not being there more for her. My husband is having memory problems that he won't go to the dr. about. He says he is fine but he really isn't. I believe he had a stroke in April and he hasn't been to the dr about it. Feeling torn, wanting to be there for mom but my husband doesn't want to leave home much. How do I be there for mom but still be here for husband? Feeling guilty but my health isn't good and I feel pulled in different directions between here and mom's. Just needed someone to talk to. Thank you and God Bless!