They're lovely. She wants nursing home. He will die there. My neurotic mom can't stand live in caregivers in house to help with dad's advanced Parkinson's disease. It's very expensive but they can afford it. She wants him in a nursing home. They live in a senior living complex my father loves. He can't do anything without help but the home care people are wonderful (even my mother admits). Dad was in a nursing home rehab for a few months and cried every day to get out of there. He will surely die if she places him in a nursing home. She is the one who's crazy (she's been stressed and angry her whole life) and can't stand people in her house. What should I do. I live out of town but visit frequently as does my sister who lives nearby.My father is completely mentally competent. He can't speak or swallow well but the aids are taking care of him. He is the nicest man in the world and has done everything for my mother. He does not deserve this. She also emotionally and verbally abuses my father.