I worked my tail off trying to get her in assisted living.
Got her into a lovely place and everything was going well, then after I went home she snapped and said she is not staying there. The place is 60 miles from where she was living. I was packing all of the essentials from her apartment because she isn’t able to care for herself any more. She does not agree. She can’t clean her apartment and did not bathe. But she could drink beer all day, she is 86 and a great fall risk. At my wits end!
She asked me what game I am playing, She needs her money. I told her here small amount of funds go to her care then Medicaid kicks in and we have a small payment to make it work. Any suggestions? Thanks.