Mom says I blow things out of proportion and have 'all or nothing' ways of seeing things. This may be true, so I'l like to have some feedback, please. I assume people shower daily, or day and a half. She's a couple of years past a stroke and says it's "such a production" and causes power struggles. If I leave her alone, she has let it go for a week. We have limited remodel options, but I'm still working on it. For now, she holds handlebars, steps over a tub (!), has a shower chair and a long shower head on a hose if she wants it (but can't figure out out to change from top to bottom shower head). So, she's right. It is a production. What's a good number to do battle over? Is once a week considered poor care? We are currently arguing over 3x/wk. I assume skin health is a factor.