My dad is 72 years old and mom 71and I moved them to the same town of live in, a block away. Brother lives 1000 miles away and little to know help. Dad has a slug of health issues, copd, macular degeneration, cataract surgery that failed, detoxing from alcohol, heart failure, high blood pressure and the list goes on. He was in a bad wreck a month ago where he ran into the back of a trailer going 55+ miles an hour. He said he didnt see the trailer, it was a bright and sunny day. He had to be flown to a hospital an hour away to have his face reconstructed. He had broken sternum, fractured ribs, cuts and bruises. He had dentures that cut the interior of his mouth so until his gums/mouth heal he has to have pureed foods. I found a company online to order and deliver so mom wouldnt have to be in the kitchen all day. I wrote another letter to his eye doctor before his appt and he finally told dad he didn't meet the requirements to drive and he needs to give it up. Dad is having a hard time with this and lashing out at me and mom and we are at our wits end. I called his doctors and dmv (making good sure the drs never used my name) a year ago to have his license revoked but it's not as easy as it sounds at all! I had rides lined up to take him to appts, grocery shopping etc but he refused that day. I found a car for mom to drive with insurance money and of course dad is having a hard time withat this and constantly tells my mom how to drive, where to turn etc etc. So many challenges ahead...but I'm ready to learn and grow thru this process.