Lost my mom this morning. Any words of wisdom from anyone?

I think if I were in your shoes and anyone offered me "words of wisdom" I would want to poke him in the eye. I'm so sorry for your loss. All I can suggest is that you won't feel this lost and bereft forever - bereft, yes, but not *this* much.

Wishing you and your father comfort.

I’m so sorry about your Mom.

She was blessed to have you as her daughter.

I pray that God will grant you the strength you need to get through this difficult time. A Mother is with us always, first in her lifetime, then forever in our memory.

I am so sorry for your loss.

I can feel the kind of love you have for your mom in your post. My heart felt the weight of your loss and I’m sending you a big hug.

Your mom was blessed to have you and your dad and she will forever be with you both.

Allow yourself to feel anything and everything that comes. Then do what your mom would tell you to do and be good to yourself - and take care of yourself as well.

I am 100% care for my mom and I lost my Dad when I was 19. It was an exhausting few days of goodbyes and celebrations of his life. On the way home from the funeral it was just me and my sister driving back home together (we were on the highway about 45 minutes from home). We were both a little numb and started playing around with the radio saying “Dad play us a song”.
Within a few minutes an old station wagon pulled in front of us - the license plate said “Dad” - it immediately pulled off the exit and was gone - me and my sister were speechless - then tears and laughter like yup that is exactly how he would do it.
Your Mom will always be with you in your beautiful memories - in who you are and always in little moments for the rest of your life.
“A Coincidences is God working miracles anonymously”.

I'm so sorry, there is nothing I can say to assuage your pain. Countrymouse is right, grieve any way you need to. Just stay safe and take care of your dad, only if you can. Seek help if you need it, we all need help sometimes and there's nothing wrong with that. Peace.

I am so sorry for your loss.

May God grant you and your family grieving mercies and strength during this difficult time.
May HE be especially merciful to your dad and hold him up at this tremendous loss.

Your post brought a tear to my eye and a familiar ache in my heart. It is so hard to lose those we love and especially so our moms. Big hugs to you and your sweet dad.

I'm so sorry for your loss, my friend. The only words of wisdom I can pass along to you is this: look for signs from your mom that she is happy and at peace on the other side. Right after my dad passed, I was driving over to his AL and I asked him for a sign that he was okay. Immediately, a very large white butterfly flew into my windshield and followed me all the way to the AL! Then I started finding pennies and dimes on the ground when I needed to most; 11's are the sign of the angels (10 and 1) and I would also see 11:11 and 1:11 on the clock quite often. Those signs were very helpful to me in realizing that dad was whole again and at peace in heaven with God. Suffering no more pain or restriction like he was here on Earth in the final year of his life.

It's hard to lose a loved one, even with signs, so be gentle with yourself as you grieve such a huge loss. Sending you a hug and a prayer for peace during this difficult time.

I can relate to your feelings.
My Husband was on Hospice for almost 3 years.
I watched him decline.
I was his caregiver. (I did have help)
I was able to keep him at home thanks to the help and equipment I got from Hospice.
I thought I was prepared.
I was not!
The morning he died I felt as if my heart were ripped from my chest and stomped on. I, at that moment, understood how someone could die from a broken heart.
I could not understand how cars could drive by with people going about their lives when the world had shifted upon its axis.

All I can tell you is that feeling will fade. Sometimes emotions come rushing back but those moments are getting further and further apart. This is not to say I don't miss him, that I don't get emotional at times but it is not as raw as it was in the beginning. I know he would not have wanted me to react that way.

Help your dad, he is going to need it.
Keep her in your thoughts, she will always be with you.
You will hear words come out of your mouth that used to come from her.
Walking down the street you will catch your reflection in a window and for a moment it will look like her. That is her talking to you. Keep your heart, mind and eyes open.
((hugs))

From one grieving heart to another, the pain you are feeling is the most honest reflection of the Love you shared with your Mom.
 
Nourish and sustain the gratitude you wrote about. You are still her daughter, we never stop being the sons and daughters of our Moms.  

What I have known all my life:
 
- How lucky and grateful I am to be Mom’s son
 
Some things I continue to work on understanding about Life after Mom died:
 
- The presence of her absence
- In over 2 years of often indescribable loneliness, I still cry
- There is no hierarchy of grief, no one goes to the head of the grief line, because there is no grief line
- Time does not heal, it is merely a measurement of distance between points on a watch or calendar
- Be on the lookout for Grief’s malevolent cousins: despair and rumination
 
Reading what others have written about their Journey after a much-loved one has died, especially a Mom, has provided me with needed and helpful insight. Online or in books, the wisdom and personal experience of others similarly devastated has guided my thinking.
 
The most helpful book for me has been “Healing After Loss” by Martha W. Hickman. I’ve read through it several times, and continue still, highlighting passages and writing notes in the margins.

Lassoing my thoughts by writing in journals has been cathartic.

Consider writing a tribute to your Mom, working on it each day, and reading it out loud to your Mom as you refine it. Read it at her memorial service if there will be one. I'm glad that I did.
 
In addition to photos, recordings, and many wonderful memories, Honoring Mom is what is left to me in her Afterlife. It has been a process of developing an evolving sense of meaning from 60 years of sharing the Trail, and being a team, with my amazing Mom.

More helpful to me than anything else, has been the Truth of the heartfelt, inspiring, and enduring words of assurance that came from Mom herself, not long before she died: “I will always live in your heart”

I will never stop loving and missing her.