Should I let the attorney be sole guardian and conservator over both parents who live out of state?

I sick and tied of the fighting! I find out today I'm going to need to be there in court in Virginia Monday morning. I thought the attorney was appearing for me on my behalf. She said she thought she made it clear. The weather got bad she wouldn't return my phone calls and never mentioned are you still driving the weathers bad or where would you like me to pick you up for court? This is total Bull **** I'm so sick of the medical community, attorneys and greedy freaking Killer Ants who reminded me they are getting the house, and parents who don't want my help. I had a melt down on the attorney asking her these questions I told her I'm not driving up there with snow and ice. I don't know what to do, postpone the hearing how long will that take? GEEZZZZ I hate my life, I hate every time I turn around somebody somewhere is telling me I'm not doing enough or whatever else. VENTING!!!!!