I’m really having a difficult time. I was my father‘s caregiver for 14 months. My stepmother and siblings rarely saw my father. We were going to his trust attorney so he could make me the guardian of his Medical and he could stay in his home. When we showed up, they had a letter deeming him incompetent so he could not make those changes. They knew he wanted to stay in his home here with me. Later that night at 8 PM they came and took him out of his bed and to his wife’s house. She is the guardian on paper. Now I am being blocked from access to my father. I’ve only been able to see him one time and she won’t accept any phone calls from me or his grandchildren. What can I do? I’m so heartbroken.
If your Dad has been disgnoised with a Dementia, he could not have made you anything. Power of Attorney would be what I would have done for just Medical proxy.
I think you need to consult with a lawyer. You may just have to except this is the way it is. Tell Wife you just want to see your Dad. You will not interfer with her care of him, you just want to see and talk to him.
I'm sorry you're going through this.