I've been working on all the paperwork and problems of moms estate for weeks now. Still a lot to do. Feeling stressed not only from this but normal life. Husbands attitude toward hard things is just do it. Do what you have to. Don't complain or get upset. I am real shy and don't have friends. No family I'm close to. So no words of encouragement or sympathy on how hard this is. I'm happy mom died. If I was sad, I don't know how I'd get through this.