My SIL with dementia moved in with us, she can’t be left alone. I work from home on the computer and take care of her. She has a retirement income. My husband & his family expect me to take care of her and have never brought up paying me, they assume because I’m home anyway It’s no issue. I feel my time & energy are important too. I bathe, cook, feed, dress laundry, keep her occupied, & run her to appointments, on top of trying to stay remotely employed.