I was just there yesterday, (Tuesday), with all the supplies she needed. I'm not feeling well, & have decided to stay home (alone) on this holiday. It's going to be 8 degrees outside & the parking on holidays can be up to 2 blocks away. So I called to let her know that I was not coming for Thursday. At first she just said, that's okay, but later I got a voicemail accusing me of lying (about the weather & the parking thing so I could just avoid visiting her).
It's shocking to me that she would want to make me feel bad, when I still go there weekly, keep her bills paid, & am constantly shopping for something she "needs". I almost threw up after hearing the voicemail, cuz I knew she did it to hurt me. Just yesterday I was helping her make arrangements for dental work she wants done, & today I'm very confused. What could I do better? Or is this just a guilt trip again? Trying to live happy is hard these days, but I'm definitely thankful for everyone here.✌🙋