Hi. Let me start by saying I will try to keep this short. I'm a 54 year old divorced mother of two teenage children and we had to move in with my mother after a devastating divorce which ruined me emotionally and financially. We've been here 9 years and CANNOT ever leave financially and I tried so hard to get out! Lol sob sob...I suffer from terrible depression and a lot of self hatred. I've been in therapy for many years. The problem is that my mother wont stop certain behaviors. I'm so distraught I can't add details right now. She dismisses me as "too sensitive and its all in my head." The way I see it is I have two choices. One suck it up and continue to be as is with resentment and anger and hate myself for not being kind to my mother. Or two confront her again (she ignores my pleading for her to hear me) and hate myself for hurting her for the rest of my life. I'm so confused. I know I see things here that aren't right or healthy but she denies and my siblings just don't see it or say "she can't change now." Is this all in my head? I really need someone to help me. Thanks for listening. Sending hugs for anyone that needs one.
Just wondering if she has started plans to move out of her moms house.