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Tell your family members to deal with all Mom's caregiving themselves, if they know so much.
If your family has called the cops twice, I'd let them all know Mom is never coming back to your home, because of their ridiculous behavior. Let them deal with demented mom, you sacrificed 2 years and they can deal with it.

Let them deal with Mom's demented behaviors and abuse. I'd flat out refuse to get near her at this point. I'd be firing her useless Primary doctor and find a competent neurologist. I'd consider dropping your POA and let your "Golden Brother" deal with Mom.
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TouchMatters Jun 2, 2025
Thank you. Well said. Gena
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I suggest you ask these family members to get more involved with her care, say, staying with her for a week while you take an extended break or short vacation. Let them experience her needs and behaviors and see if they start to understand then.
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TouchMatters Jun 3, 2025
ask or tell them?
Don't mince words.

Say: this is how it is going to be now...
This daughter needs to feel worthy to voice her opinions, feelings, and most of all, her boundaries. And, yes, it is complicated - but then, what isn't in these matters? Gena
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