No matter what I do it will NEVER be enough to please my Sister. She was furious that I questioned her "right" to reimburse herself with my Mother's money. Ripped into me saying how dare I question her as she does so much for my Mother. I don't disagree that she does a lot for my Mother. My Mother lives down the street from her in an assisted living facility. I live out of state. I do as much as I can to help. It will never be enough. She screams, "JUMP!" and if I don't say, "How High!" the sh!t hits the fan!
We have never gotten along. Estranged for years at a time. She will keep medical information from me about my Mom when we aren't speaking. Purposefully keep me out of the loop in regards to my Mother's health and welfare. My Sister has Medical POA and my Brother has Financial POA. So I am out of the loop.
I don't know how I am going to get through this with my Mom. My Sister is going to make this as difficult as possible.