When we don’t ask questions but assume it’s bad for everyone. Projecting ourselves is common. It bothers us because we don’t like it.
the mother probably picks up on a daughters
need to find fault with her and knows it’s better not to ask. When someone has a vested interest in not getting along but they are unaware of it. Therapy is a good idea.
no one’s perfect. Right?
That's the best that I can try to understand your comments - if in fact, that's what you meant. Care to clarify what you actually meant to express?
I really hope that I'm NOT correct in what you were trying to say!!