Boyfriend has manipulated me to care for his mother with dementia. Incontinent of both bowel and bladder. Resistant to care. Hallucinates constantly. I’m sad, resentful and depressed. He works min of 65 hours weekly up to 80 hours. So I’m with her primarily. She has dementia with behaviors. She’s very difficult to care for or like. If I mention anything about it, he blows up. Should I move out?
Why are you allowing him to do this to you? You deserve much, much better.
If possible, plan ahead, call APS before you leave to ask them to keep an eye on BF and especially mom. But if you suddenly get the nerve to leave, do it, then call the authorities.