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II have been a live-in caregiver for the past 15 years to two seniors in Sun City Arizona. One has passed away already Because caring for them has inhibited my ability to work a full time job. As far as the IRS is concerned I've been unemployed for the last 15 years although most of you know who are caregivers it is like a full-time job. I do not make a salary because from the beginning nothing was ever established I rely on government assistance for food and do odd jobs for other seniors in the area to make extra cash. Granted the senior that I do care for now pays for my cell phone bill the gas in my car my car insurance and any car repairs. I don't know how this balances out but is there any way to maybe somehow be funded for my work and possibly even my past work cuz at this point it seems meaningless at times because the senior I still care for can be challenging with her behavior. I do everything in the house as far as cooking her meals cleaning the house and any landscape and yard work. I do take her to all of her doctor's appointments because she has a heart condition and a pacemaker and defibrillator she's 91 years old and there's longevity in her family. Is there any way to be compensated or at least to show the IRS something for all my work over the past 15 years so that I can show the IRS and maybe have a decent social security check when I'm ready to retire?

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Just want to say, when you start collecting SS, I started at 62, SS only goes back 35 years for earnings. For me that was 27. I had worked 8 years by that age that I got no credit for. If you take SS at 100%, you will be 67. That means to get a good return you needed to start paying into SS at 32 and have a decent paying job to receive a decent payment. If you retire at 70, you get more than 100%.
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There is no way to get compensated except to stop doing what you do for your clients unless they agree to sign a contract stating your exact hourly rate, your hours and any other employment benefits: like an employer.

There is no work record because there's no govt recognized paper trail (checks, withholding, W2s or 1099s).

If you don't have that for 40 quarters (10 years) then YOU won't be getting any benefits in your old age, like SS or Medicare. You have to pay in to get it back out.

You cannot retroactively get paid by your clients because that isn't the current agreement. You need to resign what you're doing now and don't go back doing *anything* for them unless they pay you in checks or through a bookkeeper so that you can have a record; or they pay you in checks and you do your own withholding taxes. If you don't do this you will screw yourself over when it's time for you to retire. Wake up and do some research. Go to Care.com and maybe pick up gigs there and get paid what you're worth. Those 2 seniors have gotten a great deal all this time so DO NOT feel sorry for them. Get on with your life before it's too late.
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It sounds like OP has been badly taken advantage of, providing full time care for no salary other than the occasional odd job and cell phone payments. Nobody needs to be calling OP a swindler for receiving food assistance since nobody was paying them, it's the people OP cared for who seem to be the swindlers here. Unfortunately for OP, Social Security benefits are based on what you paid in from your earnings, not a prize for working hard whether you got paid or not, so there's no way to "get credit". You haven't paid in. I'm so sorry, this is a great warning to everyone who thinks caregivers should work under the table, or that "room and board" is a good substitute for proper payroll. You're robbing yourself of your future.
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MargaretMcKen 21 hours ago
OP knew what she was doing and was going along with it. Her post is very literate. She 'took advantage' of the taxpayer. My guess is that we don't have the full story here.
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I think the irs might be more interested in the fact you never reported your earnings before giving you any credit for them. The fact is that you’ve defrauded welfare for however many years by not reporting your under the table earnings, and they too are potentially liable.
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I would call the Department of Labor in your state.

Fact Sheet #79B: Live-in Domestic Service Workers Under the Fair Labor Standards Act (FLSA) | U.S. Department of Labor

Live in Domestic Service Workers are entitled to wages.


Check Whether You're Protected | U.S. Department of Labor
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Why did you do this? Are you related to the people you were caring for? If you have not done so, you might want to look into going to community college to get a certificate or diploma to get a better paying job dealing with the elderly. You don't want to be 40 and have nothing set aside for retirement or no home to live in. Start planning for your future today. I know he gets a lot of flack, but check out Dave Ramsey's videos on Youtube. He covers financial situations like this a lot.
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I lived in a part of the country in which people always want to be paid in cash so they don't have to pay income taxes.

The problem with being paid cash or being paid in free room is that social security taxes have not been paid by you and the employer on the work.

You would need to contact the Dept of Labor in your state and tell them you have worked a job and not gotten paid. The Dept. of Labor will research the case.
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Following up from below, you should definitely see an employment lawyer about suing for back pay. You wouldn't get it for all 15 years, but anything you get would help you to leave the current household, find a place to live, and give you something to live on while you seek a legitimate paid job.

Did the deceased person pass away recently, in the last year or so, meaning his estate is still open? A lawyer can help you file a claim as a debt to be paid by the estate.

What is the financial situation of the woman you are currently caring for? If she has money you may be able to negotiate back pay from her and her family. Who handles her finances? Does she pay her bills herself, or does a family member do it for her? If that family member has her legal POA he or she may not want to be on the record as having violated the law for so many years and be receptive to a settlement for back pay, maybe with a non-disclosure agreement.

See if a lawyer will give you a free consultation.
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MargaretMcKen 22 hours ago
It may be that a lawyer will give you 'a free consultation', but my guess is that you will need to pay to 'file a claim'. An equal chance of getting money is by buying a lottery ticket.
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To get the minimum Social Security benefit, you need to work 40 quarters, which adds up to ten years, but it doesn't have to be ten consecutive years. So if you are older, did you have ten years of work before you came to this exploitative caregiver situation? Or if you're younger, you should change your situation so that you can begin earning, or adding to, your work credits. Be sure your next job is on the books and that your employer is paying the required taxes, or that you are paying them as an independent contractor.

What have you been reporting on the work requirements (seeking work or enrolled in education/training) for your government assistance? The exemption would be for taking care of an incapacitated family member; are these seniors relatives? Just wondering if that might establish some kind of legitimacy to your claim that they owe you something.

You could consult with an employment attorney to see if you have any claim against the deceased senior's estate and/or the current senior's assets.
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Below is a summary of how Social Security recognizes credits of elegibilty to calulate your monthly benefits. Even if you had the ability to retroactively add credits, your earnings are $0 because you are have been unpaid for the last 15 years. Unless you do have annual W2 and tax records to prove income but then you would be earning annual credits. I advise you to research the Social Security website and create an account for more information that is detailed to you using your SS#. EDIT: Are you married? If so, that is an avenue you can research.


"Social Security recognizes credits to retire by requiring workers born in 1929 or later to earn 40 credits (10 years of work) by paying taxes on earnings. You can earn up to four credits annually ($1,890 per credit in 2026, totaling $7,560 for the maximum). These, earned credits remain on your record, even if you stop working, and do not need to be consecutive. 
Key Details on Earning and Using Credits:
Maximum Credits: A maximum of 4 credits can be earned per year.
Earning Thresholds: The amount of earnings needed for a credit changes annually based on wage increases.
Self-Employment: Self-employed individuals earn credits the same way as employees, based on net earnings.
No "Buying" Credits: Credits must be earned through employment; they cannot be borrowed or transferred from others.
Purpose: The 40-credit requirement is for eligibility (being "insured"), but the final benefit amount is calculated based on your highest 35 years of earnings. 
If you stop working before earning 40 credits, those credits remain on your record, allowing you to return later to finish the requirement."
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Nope sorry, you need a W2 form or a 1099 showing actual money made. W2 the payroll deductions were made, a 1099 you pay them when you file. There is no way after 15 years you can calculate the hours you spent caring for these two. Then, you would have to pay all those back taxes and there would be penalities attached or worse. This is what happens when your paid under the table. You have nothing to show for it. Looks like you were given free room and board for your work.
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Sandra2424 22 hours ago
Not to mention free food from the government (otherwise known as the taxpayers) who follow the laws and rules unlike you.
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I genuinely feel for you right now. Sadly, this is a question you should have asked 15 years ago.

You don’t say how old you are, but hopefully young enough that you can get a job with a salary and work at it steadily for approximately the next ten years to earn a social security benefit. That’s about how long it takes paying into social security to earn the minimum payout benefit upon retirement. Social security isn’t an entitlement, it’s something we have paid into for decades like a savings account, to get these withdrawals in our retirement years.

On the plus side, it doesn’t sound like you’ve made enough money over these 15 years to owe any back income tax. That would be the IRS involvement. Other than that, you need to look at the Social Security Administration website to find information on how it works.

If you’ve been getting government food assistance, you probably have a social worker. Please talk openly and earnestly to that person about your situation, and what you can do about it.
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