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I have a small home and limited space as it is. My brother is in prison and it’s just good old yours truly. I have no need for her things. I’m going to have my boyfriend & his friends move her stuff out of her room and donate it to goodwill (except for our family pictures and stuff). I hope that doesn’t sound cruel.

If she's in LTC she doesn't have a lot of stuff, like my MIL.

We asked the facility if they wanted all her clothers (yes). You don't have to take her hygiene stuff, or disposable briefs -- they will be glad to have those back for others to use.

She had a tv that we gave to a grandson, and a cd player/radio. All other uniquely personal things (like photos) we took home. They may not want hanging artwork. Any medical equipment can be left at the facility. My MIL had a special wheelchair for people who could not sit up. It was paid for by Medicaid and I suppose we could have taken it and sold it (it was huge) but the facility was a faith-based non-profit so I know they would give it to some other resident in need.

Everything else we offered to other residents directly or donated to a thrift store.
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I was POA. I had a 4 bedroom farm house to clear out. I asked my brother what did they want, they came and got it. The rest got given to thrift shops and given away. When the house got sold, anything left went out on the curb to be picked up by the township.

Facebook is a good place to get rid of stuff. We have a local Freecycle group. You post and they pick up.
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Sounds practical to me. Senior's "stuff" is basically worthless, despite what they may have believed. Better to donate it to people who may actually need something. There's nothing cruel about it. You have to survive.

Be sure to save the photos and special momentoes.
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There is a company called Caring Transitions in the US that we used for my in-laws' things and will soon be using for my folks (all of whom are still living but needed to sell their houses and downsize their stuff). We got the things we wanted, then turned the rest of the process over to them. They set up an online auction and handled all the shipping and pick-ups, then got rid of all the rest of it so we didn't have to worry about it. It was so good not to have to deal with the whole shebang ourselves. I'd recommend finding a company like that near you, if you have one. It's well worth the cost.
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Have you asked the director if they would accept donations? I was able to donate all of my mom's belongings to the poor residents.
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If you have no need for any of her things for yourself there may be people in her assisted living complex who would like her things. When my mother passed away some of her neighbors were happy to get her end tables and a chair, and one lady even took some of her clothes so just ask. It would save you a lot of time and leg work having to lug it all off to good will. Good luck!
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The facility that Mom was in was happy to take some of her things. They had a place to store some furnishings and they could be donated for other residents. Their maintenance staff would move them for you. You might inquire about this.
I also saw flyers in the facility for someone who died and their family was selling and donating items from their room/apartment to those who wanted them.
We brought some items home and got a neighbor to help move a couple of heavy items.
I was approached by staff concerning donating depends for those who needed them. I was told privately by one of the staff that there was someone there whose son did not always provide incontinence briefs for his mom and she was usually in need of them. I happily donated them.
Another facility where we had family took donations for their second hand store, them proceeds from which went into their benevolent fund.
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Sorry for your loss. Many posters are under the impression you have a home to empty rather than a care facility room. Your plan sounds great. If Goodwill doesn't want the items, just toss them and don't have any guilt. It is not cruel.
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Of course it's not cruel. Every elder seems to have a mountain of physical goods left behind when they pass. Nobody can use all that stuff, so it gets donated, sold, or tossed. I'm sorry this is all left to you and I can relate. We had to dispose of my in-laws 60 year hoard before we could sell their place. You might ask your brother if there's anything he wants or save a few small sentimental items if you think he'd appreciate that.
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There is something called a contractor's cleanout. Firms that specialize in this will clean out a house or apartment or office, divide the things to go to the dump, the thrift store, garage sale, or keep, haul it all away, sweep up after themselves, and then they go away.

If you need the place cleaned, such as floors, carpets, walls, they can arrange that too and sometimes do it themselves. It costs money, but they can do this in a day or two versus your dealing with all of it for weeks or months. This is particularly helpful for landlords who must have a quick turnaround when one tenant leaves and the next needs a quick move-in.

When a parent leaves you with a lifetime collection of useless and unattractive stuff, you have no commitment to sweetly offer their Hummel figurines and collection of Mason jars to faraway relatives who don't want them either. If you're sentimental, take a picture of mom's teddy bear collection before you rehome it with the toddler who lives down the street.
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