I went to court, Medicaid does not live up to their side, now what?
So court on Tues consisted of Medicaid has to pay me $8k for repairs and cleaning, the old hag needs to give me $800 a month rent/utilities and Medicaid said they would provide 24/7 care. The $8k check came today.
There has not been one day of 24/7 care. Workers come 8 to 12 and 4:30 to 8. POS son comes 12 to 5, you know to put on an act and bringing the little brats. All day, in and out, leaving doors open in 16 degree weather. At night no help so her screaming and hallucinating. I have called APS several times per the judges order, no help, call APS.
POS was supposed to take her but psycho sis did this:
"ME: I guess not, according to POS and your mom, you suggested not to change her surroundings. Thanks.
HER: Yes I said it wouldn’t be a good idea if she is hallucinating that bad she should stay in her known surroundings...let me call you later on tonight
ME: If she is hallucinating that bad, they need to dump her at an Emergency Room. M can't work all day, come home and do wound care, etc while S comes 12 to 5. They were going to take her this weekend but its Valentines Day, must be date night so whatever.
If anything happens to M since he looks and feels like sh*t, its on her, S, YOU and Medicaid. F* YOU ALL.
She tried giving Melissa, the worker money the other night because she thought she was you."
She just called, woohoo. I am furious.
What can I do?
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Please take care of yourself, and let us know how you are when you can.
I imagine that things will have to change for your safety’s sake.
Best wishes to you!
If the smell is that bad call am ambulance. Once in the hospital, refuse to take her back saying that Medicaid is not providing the care she needs and you can't/will not do it. You don't want this woman dying on your watch. Tell the hospital to contact the Judge. This maybe your way out.
I am so sorry for all of this!
I came in late to your story. So, please excuse my questions.
Is this lady a relative? Is her son a relative?
By saying that he dropped her off, why did she get to stay? Does her son own half the house?
Are you desperate enough to sell? In that case, would Michigan consent to a NH?
Best wishes to you,
Colleen
So thanks for the support.
Sorry if I’m way off course with what’s going on with you. Your situation sounds as unusual as it is awful and I’m sure you get tired of explaining it.
Hope you start feeling much better soon!