My father has dementia. He has good days where he can function and he has bad days. My father's Doctor retired, so I found a new Doctor, made the appt. for January (trying to make sure he has enough meds until then). Today he tells me “I’ve changed insurance plans. They told me about a different better plan so I went with it.” I said dad your Doctor appt. is coming up and they may not accept the new plan. How will you get your meds? You may not be able to get in with another Doctor in time. He said oh, I didn’t think about that (I’m thinking I know that’s why I’m organizing things for you). Or when he constantly tells me his computer broke he can’t get in because he forgets his passwords. I made a list of all of his passwords but he goes and changes them and now I do not know what they are and we have a hard time trying to figure out what some of them are. It’s so frustrating because it constantly happens and it places so much extra stress on me. He can’t remember that I have everything organized for him and he still wants to do things himself but it doesn’t work out so well. Yet I’m not sure if he would be labeled incompetent if he still has good clear days. What do I do? Anyone else with this problem?