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I'm doing most of the housework, yard care, animal care and working. My wife is still able to do the financials. Meal preparation has been a problem because of the special diets both of them are on. I can't just go to Dollar General and buy all those processed prepared meals. Throwing them a Pop Tart and some coffee in the morning just won't do it. We make too much for Meals on Wheels. My wife is very concerned about nutrition. In fact she recently bought all kinds of special cooking equipment so she could make the nutritious foods she needs for her inflammation. Now she can't use it. Does anyone know of a company that can provide light prepared meals not packed with MSG? I don't like to cook as it is but I have to. It's really tiring to have people who are inactive hollering about being hungry.

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There are now so many meal plans that you can order on line and most of them are easy to prepare, all the ingredients are delivered to you. And there is a wide selection of meals to select from.
Freshly
Blue Apron
Hello Fresh
Those are just the ones I can think of off the top of my head.
They are NOT inexpensive.
Your best option is to do what many busy people do.
Plan several menus.
Shop for all the items you need.
Take a day or two on the weekend and cook.
Now portion your meals out and freeze the portions.
If you do it right you will make more than enough and the next week when you make more you will add to your stock pile of meals so you can pull out a variety at any time.
When I was caring for my Husband I can not tell you how many portions of soups, stews and other meals I had in the freezer. It made things so much easier for me even though it took a day or two to get it all done. Many times I did not have to cook at all during the week.
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If you are financially able, get large quantities of good quality ingredients at a store like Costco, or whatever nearest equivalent you can. Then have a single day you devote to cooking lots of meals. I do this. I can prepare, cook, and freeze a month’s worth of meals in a day. I control what is in them for our specific dietary needs.

I am not fond of cooking, either, so doing it all at once lets me have easy prep, microwaveable meals ready to go, with ingredients I controlled. It also lets you cut down on shopping trips. A vacuum sealer helps, but isn’t critical. Some things, like vegetable dishes, I will freeze separately so they can be quickly added to any other main course to give greater variety to the meals.

Buying in bulk, usually even using high quality organic ingredients, cuts the final cost far below buying any other way. Cooking all at once in a day gives you one mess, one cleanup, and one planning and prep session to do.
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I have worked with Meals on Wheels. There is an option to pay for the meals weekly if income is too high. As stated by Garden Artist it is not total household income, but the income of the individuals who need the meals. Also you can deduct medical insurance premiums, prescription drugs, and doctor costs. Some areas allow for incontinence supplies to be deducted. These deductions are from your monthly income to lower the individuals monthly income.

My Mom and Dad had a chef service come to their house when they no longer cooked. Meals were delivered weekly and they chose meals each week from the menu. I felt the service was reasonably priced.
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Wow! What a great group this is. I got a lot of good information myself. Thank you.
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Do your wife and MIL want something different every meal? Mom had no real dietary restrictions; I had more (low sodium and low carb), so I cooked more to control our sodium intake than anything else. Frozen vegetables often have less salt added or can be purchased in no salt added versions if you cannot find a no or low salt added canned version. Mom had a sweet tooth and ate more carbs than I did. If we liked something my mother and I were willing to eat it again the next day, so I made a large pot of soup each week (rotating vegetable beef, chicken noodle, potato, and chili); we ate about half of it (usually one meal a day) with freshly baked bread (often cornbread) and I froze about half for upcoming weeks. Mom had pop-tarts for breakfast alternating with cereal and scrambled eggs, often with peppers and onions added (sometimes cheese and/or diced ham). An egg scramble (eggs scrambled with pepper and onions or ham and cheese) with toast and jelly was often my default meal when I didn't have the energy for cooking some more effort and time-consuming. I cooked one complete meal on Sundays and used the leftovers for our meals during the week. And some nights when I was too tired to cook, Mom loved several flavors of Healthy Choice Simply Steamers frozen dinners. My Mom loved fruit and sweets, so I kept fresh fruit available for snacks (often bananas, apples, and tangerines, cut portions of watermelon and cantaloupe) along with creme cakes (little icing) or cookies and the always favored ice cream. In my area, the chef option isn't available, but I would have taken it if it were.
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You can hire a personal chef to come in and prepare meals. They do a week or more, special dietary requirements, etc.
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I have relatives who hired a personal chef to come in and make three weeks' worth of dinners at a time, then she froze them in individual containers. All they had to deal with was breakfast and lunch, and most of those meals contained enough to have the leftovers for lunch.
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I have heard positives about Home Chef. It seems to provide healthy meals without extensive prep time which most of the others require. We personally had a negative experience with one mentioned here and my adult kids also had negatives such as small portions,alot of prep work and rules that border on ridiculous as to ordering in the future based on what you previously ordered. If you forget to place a future order they place it for you and you may find yourself with a box of food you may not desire. For example: We wanted to order scallops. Were told we couldn't that week because we hadn't ordered it before. We were sent a box of pork meals which we had never originally ordered and don't eat. I believe their system will send out less popular items.

If you live near a Trader Joe's or a Whole Foods there are options there. It may not be as cost effective but provides choices that taste good without great effort.

I think the idea of a personal chef is wonderful but depending on where you live may not be feasible. If it is and is within your budget that would be a wonderful solution. Covid may play into this scenario. I have a friend who has a restaurant and she presently laments the difficulty of finding staff for most positions. Perhaps working privately might be different. I would not know how to get connected with a chef for example but if I could figure it out I would utilize this option when my family visits. Anything to avoid the thesis that one daughter's grocery list becomes!
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Being a homemaker for 45 years and having 'meal duty' for 7 people has taught me a LOT!

Make menus. Shop from those menu lists (and keep staples like soups and some healthy, high quality frozen meals on hand).

Saturday was prep day. I'd cook as much as I could, freeze what needed to be 'kept' and did a LOT of casseroles and crockpot meals.

I'm skimming, obviously, it took me years to work this out and there was always that occasional night when it was too exhausting to even think of putting something I'd already made in the oven!

Now,, as DH and I are retiring, we have used a couple of meal services. Handy, but still, a lot of the recipes require more prep than I want to do. Using these recipes, I buy for the same meal, but at a smaller cost. All the veggies can be prepped at the same time. (That's the biggest time factor). I spend a few minutes each morning thinking about dinner and get out the meat to thaw, if necessary, start the crockpot (yeah for Fall-I do a LOT of crockpot meals!) and even set out frozen rolls to rise. Often I make way more than we can eat and so I will call a neighbor and run dinner to them. I can't adapt to cooking for 2 instead of 7!

And yes, one night a week is the 'wild card' where we either go out or order in.

A favorite 'snacky' type of dinner is a chacuterie tray. Meats and speciality cheeses with a very thin cracker--maybe a dollop of a sweet jam. Lo-carb and filling. Dh can actually fix this!

Both DH and I are sensitive to MSG (gives us migraines) so we're super careful about what we eat.

I hope and pray I will never need MOW. I tasted one of my mom's and while it was 'edible' it was far from being 'good'. It sustains life, but that's about it.
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My husband and I have no kids, so it's always been us two. We both want to eat reasonably healthy, but it became a pain and expensive to shop for a specific item each week, or make something and it not turn out right. Or it would go bad before we could eat it. Or something would come up that week and throw off the entire week's meals. And I'm not a gifted cook, so I need all the help I can get. :)

So, we've been using EveryPlate and so far we're fine with it. Is $38.00 a week, which is three meals (for two). I know buying the same items at the grocery store is cheaper, but it's actually saved us money. I no longer buy a bunch of food at the store that might not get used, and I don't have to keep running to the store to get something needed for a recipe that I forgot. You can also cancel a week's delivery if you're going to be away or have leftovers you need to finish up. You select items each week, there's usually 9-12 meals you can pick.
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