We are concerned that our Aunt, who resides with our grandmother, is getting paid $6000 a month. We were told by the executor of her will that they felt it was cheaper to hire my aunt then to send my grandmother to a nursing home. My aunt doesn’t pay rent and although she does take good care of my grandmother, there are also aides that come in three days a week to help bathe her. My grandmother was told a number to pay and she pays it out of her pocket. Not sure what to do with out jeopardizing relationship and access to seeing her.