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Alive and retired looks like you may be able to, like worried said.
If he died, seems his pension stops at death.
"Military retired pay stops upon death of the retiree! The Survivor Benefit Plan (SBP) allows a retiree to ensure, after death, a continuous lifetime annuity for their dependents. The annuity which is based on a percentage of retired pay is called SBP and is paid to an eligible "
Your County should have a VA office you can contact. You probably need your marriage certificate, divorce papers, his SS# and Military records. If he collects SS, you can get yours based on his record if hire than yours.