Basically I am just tired of caring for her. I am so tired of not having a life. I have a brother and sister who refuse to do anything. How can I get some help ? I have been doing this for over five years. I have tried everything I can think of to get a break. My mother is not able to do anything for herself. I can not even put her in a NH being as how she was denied medicaid because she would go to the bank and take out thousands of dollars to give to her relatives. I finally put a stop to her being scammed out of her life savings. Now I am left to pay all the bills. Once her family got all her money not one of them will even answer the phone. Mom was in a NH until her checks bounced and out the door she went. Mom moved in wife and kids moved out. How can I get this straightened out ?