My nana moved in with me 2 months ago from Montana, she had a stroke so I moved her home. It's too much for me to do because I was recently diagnosed with ankylosing spondylitis and rheumatoid arthritis. I'm a single mom of 3 kids and I work full time. I have no family to take on her care and I have called every care facility in my area and in the surrounding areas up to 3 hours away and no one has any long term availability. What can I do? It's getting very painful to care for her. She needs 24 hour care. I do not have a signed anything stating I'm her responsible person. Also she is okay with going into a facility. I've talked to her about it. She was in a facility in Montana before I moved her in with me to California. I've thought about her going back there but I can't take her back and have no one to take her back to Montana. I dont want her that far from me as well.
I suggest you call Office of Aging and see what resources are for Gma. I think ur problem will be is she has not lived in Montana long enough for Medicaid. It doesn't go over State lines.
In other countries, from the time you are born to the time you die, you are covered by the same system seemlessly. They do that with a higher standard of care at at least half the cost we pay for healthcare. I don't get why some people are so against paying less to get more.