I am concerned because my mother when she first went to live at my brother & sister in law's home she said to me, "You won't believe what I had to do to stay here." Well, it ended up mom moved her pension and S.S. up where she is after staying 2 years. She kept saying they don't want anything, they just want to keep me. But I feel different. I know that mom wanted to give her money because of how the will was written. Plus mom had always given them money over the years. I don't care that she wanted to do this because she is keeping her but to do everything behind my back is wrong. Mom wanted to pay everyone a % each month for her care. I wrote a check monthly to my sister in law. Then when mom moved her money up there and I wrote checks to them without knowing what she did. With the pension not being on my bank statement I wasn't looking for it. So basically she was double paid for 8 months until I started to wonder why my checking was lowering. I ended up talking to the lawyer because I was worried as to what mom would take out. So I was advised to take her name off. Then I also put a code on the checking because I felt that the sister in law would call to find out what's in the accounts. Well, she tried. It was none of her business I felt. They never came around over the years to see my mom and dad and they were deeply hurt. That's why mom did her will the way she did. With all her money going their way, I feel it's wrong. I will be the one paying bills at the end and it will be coming out of her money that I have. Mom just doesn't understand that when she passes, they will keep what is in my sister in law hands, she thinks she will pay the bills. What I wrote out of my checking to pay them I've lost. Do I have any rights to change where the money is because with her Parkinson's she isn't thinking clearly.