It has been 6 long years and I have checking account receipts. I am over whelmed with the paper work. My family doesn't even speak to me anymore. It hurt's so bad. I am learning to detach myself but it's not fair that Dad doesn't get to see his grandkids and they only live eight miles away. I am so over whelmed with emotions to the point I can't function and feel guilty and fear of doing something wrong. My Dad still lives in his own house with partime care givers and I am unable to care for him physically. Any advice would be so much appreciated.