We can not do much socially due to his mom's care. I cared for my mom, mother in law and my very ill husband. My gentleman friend states he will never put mom in facility... I am so confused ..what should I do???
You have to do what is right for you. Of all people, since you have done this before, you really know what the road you are headed down looks like.
Obviously, you can have some conversations with your friend, and relate some of what you went through as a caregiver - -it might help him see what pitfalls he hasn't thought about. Maybe a compromise can be found. If not, you will have to decide if the relationship is important enough to go through caregiving again . . . . . ?
Obviously, you can have some conversations with your friend, and relate some of what you went through as a caregiver - -it might help him see what pitfalls he hasn't thought about. Maybe a compromise can be found. If not, you will have to decide if the relationship is important enough to go through caregiving again . . . . . ?