My husband was a widower when I met him. His first wife did not want him to be with another woman (even though he was only 44 at her time of death) and she insisted on getting a joint burial plot with both of their names and birth dates and her deceased date. My husband is now 71 and we have been together for 25 years (married 20).
I should state that I do not care where my husband is placed when he passes. I only care that we have spent all of our time very happy while he is alive.
However, he has decided to be cremated (like me) and wants to be with me in a spot that we choose together.
Should we just leave his half of the burial plot empty ? or bury his single brother there and change name and date(but he didn't get along with first wife)? or maybe I should just bury husband with first wife?
If I go first, this will not be a problem because my husband can decide!